Our society tell us from an primary age that the roadmap to a successful (and happy) life is to study hard, go to university, get a well-paid job, get married, have kids and buy our own home. Even if, as kids, we are already happy without any of these things, we absorb the brainwashing like sponges.
Nobody tells us to put our own happiness first and to allow ourselves to be the guiding compass in life. Focusing on ourselves and putting oneself first is seen to be selfish and irresponsible. Consider the safety instructions on an airplane. We are told to take our own oxygen first before supplying to those around us. Similarly, to truly serve and inspire others, we need to put our own happiness first. When our happiness tank is empty or depleted, what do we have to give others?
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